Okay, this is really stepping out on a limb for me but I feel compelled to share this. I'm doing this because I'm trying to become more transparent with my life and with my Faith. I know this is my business blog but as a photographer, I come in contact daily with clients that just may need to read this. I work with many younger couples especially those with small children and maybe what I have to say may help them. So here goes.
Last night as I was typing on my blog, I felt a call from God to get in His word. So when I finished, I took a hot bath and settled into bed. When I get this feeling, I typically just open His word to the first chapter the the Bible opens up to. Last night it was Proverbs 19. I LOVE Proverbs and was so excited when I was drawn to this book. As I began reading, I was confused. It starts off a little deep, deeper than my mind wanted to go at 10:00 but I persevered. In the first reading the verses 13-14 stood out but still didn't grab me.
Proverbs 19:13-14
New International Version (NIV)
13 A foolish child is a father’s ruin,
and a quarrelsome wife is like
the constant dripping of a leaky roof.
14 Houses and wealth are inherited from parents,
but a prudent wife is from the Lord.
So, I got out my iPad and studied further. And MAGIC! I knew what God wanted me to hear and it was amazing. See, earlier in the night when my husband came home I suggested that we walk all around the house from room to room and outside and make a punchlist of all the things that need to be done and I was frustrated at him because we never got to it. He got home and washed his car, we ate dinner and I cleaned up, got the girls bathed and in bed and finished editing a session from last weekend. When the subject came up at 9:00, I mouthed off some response because I was frustrated that we hadn't done what I wanted. As I was thinking earlier what needed to be done.....the first thing that I thought that needed to go on my list was the DRIPPING FAUCETS in the kitchen and in the bathroom. They drive me CRAZY! I adjust the levers several times a day to make the stop dripping and the constant drip-drip-drip is nervewracking. Well, I confess that is me!
A quarrelsome wife is like the constant dripping of a leaky roof!
OUCH! The commentary says, "The contentions of a wife are a continual dropping - The man who has got such
a wife is like a tenant who has got a cottage with a bad roof through every part
of which the rain either drops or pours. He can neither sit, stand work, nor
sleep, without being exposed to these droppings. God help the man who is in such
a case, with house or wife!"
It goes on further to say, "A prudent wife is from the Lord." I thought, oh me, me! I want to be a prudent wife. So I look it up! That means, "
A prudent wife is from the Lord - One who has a good understanding, who avoids complaining, though she may often have cause for
it.
Double OUCH! So I pray today that I not be a leaky roof and that I may be prudent, full of wisdom and grace and that I will avoid complaining! A good lesson for today.
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